tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post7226217502061339209..comments2023-07-27T05:41:37.407-04:00Comments on Knocked Up By A Test Tube: I know, it has been a whileThe Single Hussyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08586124598758747789noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-4042366146561065262012-08-05T14:30:13.546-04:002012-08-05T14:30:13.546-04:00PRAYING for YOU and A. I wish I didn't know th...PRAYING for YOU and A. I wish I didn't know the hell you are in, but I do... and I am praying! FIGHT for that BABY!!!! I'm behind you!!!~Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00431200698735865679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-66081335347817506962012-07-26T14:08:16.727-04:002012-07-26T14:08:16.727-04:00Sending prayers and thoughts your way. Hang in th...Sending prayers and thoughts your way. Hang in there.Debhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00795062243444490063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-23578260641578089422012-07-24T10:47:47.984-04:002012-07-24T10:47:47.984-04:00Been there. Multiple times. Although we never hi...Been there. Multiple times. Although we never hired a lawyer as we didn't have any of our kids as long as you have. Email me if you need to talk.<br /><br />Here from LCFA...Denver Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16236286296187463673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-49497367279899572552012-07-24T10:20:10.874-04:002012-07-24T10:20:10.874-04:00Here from LCFA. I will light a candle today and se...Here from LCFA. I will light a candle today and send the light out to you. This situation sounds so unfair.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-82039444226556356752012-07-23T15:54:57.508-04:002012-07-23T15:54:57.508-04:00Here from LFCA and sending lots of support. This i...Here from LFCA and sending lots of support. This is an awful situation and it makes me so sad and so angry, the way our government treats our kids. Thinking of you and your baby girl and hoping she gets to stay right where she is.CoffeeBluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13371697271417561987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-14417802210540701222012-07-23T01:30:19.936-04:002012-07-23T01:30:19.936-04:00What an absolute nightmare...and what trauma for t...What an absolute nightmare...and what trauma for the baby girl.<br /><br />I am so sorry for the justice system to be such an ape. <br /><br />...here from LFCA.St Elsewherehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08074672268757885766noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-18549647487301711092012-07-23T00:51:41.700-04:002012-07-23T00:51:41.700-04:00So sorry you are going through this. I will be pr...So sorry you are going through this. I will be praying that the courts will see what this will do to her and make a better decision.SurlyMamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15933109106254963802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-75961074973555596602012-07-22T23:34:15.785-04:002012-07-22T23:34:15.785-04:00I will never understand reunification with family ...I will never understand reunification with family when it comes at the expense of a child's well being. I am so angry and sorry this is happening. The American social service system is so screwed up. My heart is aching for you. You're damn right I am lighting candles, chanting and burning incense.A Shadow of My Former Selfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09828440343398303476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-69331744546585533052012-07-22T22:57:47.201-04:002012-07-22T22:57:47.201-04:00Ugh I'm so incredibly sorry to hear you are ha...Ugh I'm so incredibly sorry to hear you are having to go through this. I've had interaction with the foster care system in my state and honestly they suck - nothing seems to ever really be in the best interest of the children. I'm glad that you aren't giving her up without a fight, someone should fight for whats best for her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-12998344621954427482012-07-18T22:28:09.884-04:002012-07-18T22:28:09.884-04:00What a totally broken system! I hope you totally k...What a totally broken system! I hope you totally kick their @ss!!<br /><br />She needs you. <3 Doing everything I can think of out in the universe to make this happen for you.JustAnotherJennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05238995496148769524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-11647759317811320522012-07-18T22:26:36.832-04:002012-07-18T22:26:36.832-04:00So sorry you are going through this right now! I&...So sorry you are going through this right now! I'm glad for A that all she knows are happy times with you.<br />I will send thoughts and pray for you both that the system will see and do what is truly best for A!!!MookiePiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05541103497346363940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-63851784886304053502012-07-18T14:15:48.726-04:002012-07-18T14:15:48.726-04:00Still sending love and positive thoughts, prayers,...Still sending love and positive thoughts, prayers, everything your way!<br /><br />My understanding of the fed dollars being paid out to states is that the state has to "attempt" placement within the family, but not that they have to absolutely place the child with family in order for the state to get the funding. It seems really bizarre that they would REQUIRE family placement without actually, seriously considering whether it was right for the child. I mean, I know the states can be a little batshit sometimes with the way they do things and make decisions, but to *require* placement within the family just for the sake of it being family doesn't seem safe, logical, always in teh child's best interest, reasonable...I could go on. <br /><br />You know, it makes me really angry...for you, and for all the other parents out there who could really make a loving, amazing home for a child and yet have to give the child up to some extended relative, or relative through marriage, just because they some how are "related". Makes absolutely no sense. <br /><br />I think you and I need to start a revolution and lobby to change the legislation on this. It's really, really ridiculous.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104174184032984739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-59129475559343306052012-07-18T10:31:08.584-04:002012-07-18T10:31:08.584-04:00Oh this is heartbreaking. I am rallying all of th...Oh this is heartbreaking. I am rallying all of the best wishes I can think of for you. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.irrationalexuberancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05772420700972282324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-54064728864479155682012-07-18T08:32:01.236-04:002012-07-18T08:32:01.236-04:00My heart aches for you & for what A may have t...My heart aches for you & for what A may have to go thru. It kills me that if this all goes thru, A will probably not remember the wonderful woman (you) who fought so hard for her & her well being. I absolutely hate that this is the way the system works.<br /><br />Praying the courts can look beyond $$$ & truly do what is best for A.Tiarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17511522028218347560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5776559079167234976.post-80021659388574013532012-07-17T22:56:19.065-04:002012-07-17T22:56:19.065-04:00I can not imagine the absolute nightmare you'r...I can not imagine the absolute nightmare you're going through right now. If she were going to be going to a good home, a stable home, and be allowed to see you, it would be hard enough. But the way it is now? I just can't imagine.<br /><br />Prayers being said, spells chanted, incense burned and candles lit for you both.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14647211529119137824noreply@blogger.com